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Pressure To Be Perfect

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Hey Guys x This is going to be a bit more serious than my usual posts. People always say that, in society, there is a pressure to be 'skinny' or 'fun' or to have the right clothes or the best hair. I think this all boils down to one thing. We have a pressure to be perfect. And this isn't just in society. Take university, for instance. You will not get in unless you have the required grades and a kick-ass personal statement. If you don't get the grades, you're not considered. If your personal statement isn't that great, you won't get in. In other words, if you're not perfect for the course and the university, you won't get in. Or when we're making friends. Some of us are convinced that, to make the best friends, we have to be the best versions of ourselves. No stupid jokes, no breaking down, no disagreements. We have to be perfect to have perfect friends, right? Newsflash: We are never going to be perfect! You may have a ...

Girl Talk: Be Happy, Be Real, Be You

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I've been watching many videos recently around the topic of being happy in your own skin. My favourites are: Why are you so skinny?  - Zoella and Sprinkle Of Glitter Summer  - Zoella and Sprinkle Of Glitter Happy and Healthy  - Carrie Hope Fletcher It interests me that we need strangers over the internet to convince us to be happy about who we are, but most of us do. I think this is because, although your best friend may tell you how amazing they think you are, it means nothing because they're you're best friend. But when people who have no loyalties towards us tell us how amazing we are, we believe it because they have no reason to lie. Not everyone believes they are beautiful, or has enough self confidence to wear what they want to wear or to be who they want to be. This is a fact and it's never going to change. There will always be someone who is prettier than you, smarter than you, better than you. But in the same way, there will also be someone who is pret...