Girl Talk: Looks vs Personality

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Many people believe that you can fall in love at first sight. Look at Romeo and Juliet: Fell in love, got married and died for each other within a 3 day period. They can't have fallen for each other's personalities because they didn't know each other. However, as these are fictional characters, can we suggest that 'Love at first sight' is real.

I believe that, if someone tells you that they fell in love with you at first sight, then they weren't in love with you. They were, in fact, in love with the way that you look, which is in no way a bad thing. Everyone wants someone to be physically attracted to them. But is that the most important thing?



Personally, I believe in the quote above. Falling in love with someone's looks don't guarantee any longevity in your relationship. Falling in love with someone's personality makes you find the way that they look much more attractive. Most girls believe that boys fall in love with your looks first, and put up with your personality based on how hot they find you, but I don't think that this is true. I believe that, although all boys may not know what they want, they'll all know when they're not happy. And although that may find someone incredibly gorgeous, if you don't click, they'll let you know it...Or they'll gently break up with you in a text/email because a lot of them are not very good at confrontation.



Don't spend your time changing the way that you look for the perfect man. Look the way that you want, the way that makes you feel comfortable, and the right person for you will eventually find you. Wherever you are, whoever you are. And he won't expect you to be perfect for everyone else, because your imperfections will be perfect to him.

Thank you for reading.

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