A Strong Dependent Woman!


Hey Guys x

So this post is probably going to sound a bit weird, so just go with me!

It's great to be a strong independent woman, and I love women who are. But I'm not.

In some aspects of my life, sure, I can be independent. I can make appointments and do food shopping (online) and write and other things, without having input from someone else, and it's completely fine.

But in many aspects of my life, I an dependent. For example, when I'm making a short film or something, I like to have someone else's input.

When I'm doing something that I'm not sure about, I like to know other people's opinions of my decision before I commit to making it.

Before I go somewhere that I've never been before, I know that I'd love someone to come with me.

It seems that lately, the terms 'strong' and 'independent' can't be separated from each other, but I believe that they totally can.

I can be a strong woman and still depend on a best friend when I'm sad, or a movie when I'm happy, or a book when I'm bored.

I depend on Marvel to make me happy with great movies and in return, I give them all my money!

I depend on things a lot. Like, I am more than happy to spend hours and hours and days and days in my own company, but then I rely on random twitter users to make me laugh, or random Instagram users to entertain me. I depend on storytellers and makers and creators.

And then I depend on people. I depend on friends and family members for all sorts of things.

So in conclusion to this random ramble, I love the idea of being a completely independent woman, I'm just not one. What other people think of me is always on my mind, and as independent as I try to be, I have to rely on things to keep me sane!

What do you rely on? Are you independent?

Lou xx

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  1. I'm definitely not always independent, but honestly I'm okay with that and I don't see anything wrong with that. If anything, I like being dependent sometimes.
    Aleeha xXx
    http://www.halesaaw.co.uk/

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